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On Monday, I talked about responsible ways to get rid of things. But my favorite way is not to get rid of it at all, but rather to find a better way to use it. I am a shameless repurposer (is that a word? Well, it is now). 

Here are 5 things that I can almost always find a use for in my home:

  • Any shelf or shelving system. I’ve constantly got books and mementos and baby plant cuttings that need to be given a permanent home, so a shelf has to be thoroughly useless before I will get rid of it. I have a short shelf in my living room that is literally half the shelf it used to be. The top was too damaged to salvage, so I sawed it off, and now it’s three shelves instead of five, and it works just fine that way. If a shelf doesn’t fit in my home, it will probably fit in my office at work, or I know someone else who can use it (ah, one of the many benefits of having bookish friends). 
  • Jars. Whether they’re Mason jars I bought when I was going through my canning phase or random jars that held sauce or some other pantry staple, I tend to accumulate a lot of them. They’re handy to use as vases or twinkle light holders. They help me organize by corralling pens, buttons, nails, or other small objects. They also make great to-go containers that I don’t need (or want) to get back (which also takes something off the to-do list of the person who uses it). 
  • Coffee mugs. Again, there are so, so many. Of course, the best use for coffee mugs is holding coffee, but I don’t really need more than one of those at a time (usually). I use them as pen/pencil holders. They personlize my bookshelves. There’s one on my desk at work that holds little knick knacks that people give me that I don’t want sprawled all over the desk.
  • Heavy objects. These inevitably become door stops or bookends. Several of my shelves are open on the ends, and they are still able to house my books without peril due to a jar of pennies, a decorative box filled with mixed tapes from my childhood, and other assorted heavy objects. My closet door in my bedroom is held open by an old boot with a leftover brick from my patio in it. It may be unconventional, but it does the trick.
  • Random cute items. I am not exactly a minimalist (although I really love Cozy Minimalist Home and all things Myquillyn Smith. Life goals, sort of), but I’m not a maximalist either. As in life, I also need some breathing room in my home. But then there are the random cute things. Cow salt-and-pepper shakers. A miniature plushy of Lucky the Squirrel (UNT’s unofficial mascot). Felt roses that a friend made. So many things make great decorations. I’m ten times more likely to display the art my friends make as I am to put up things that were store bought (although I have been know to repurpose those in my own art projects). If I love something, but I already have a more functional option that I actually use, I can still use it to make my home cozier by working it into my design plan. 

I hope you have a great weekend, friends!

I’m writing about keeping house for 31 days.

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I love How To Keep a House While Drowning. The subtitle is “a gentle approach to cleaning and organizing,” and that’s just what I need. I am not motivated by what I should do or someone else’s standard. Frankly, I’m not even motivated by my own standards. 

I am motivated by grace and understanding and generosity, and this book is an abundance of those things.

In the first few pages, Davis starts in with this wisdom: “You don’t exist to serve your space; your space exists to serve you.” Many of my struggles with keeping house are based on my suspicion that I somehow owe my apartment something. But really? I am there because of my needs (to have shelter) and desires (to be cozy af). Therefore, it makes much more sense to approach it in ways that serve this purpose.

When I approach housework as a way of honoring my needs, my perspective shifts. What would make Future Me happy or help her relax? That is why I clean. That is why I declutter. Not to impress some possible guests but to please myself.

Davis also addresses the binary status of done or not done. The point of housework isn’t to mark something as “done.” Now, initially, this offended me to my very core. You know I love marking things off a checklist. But the point of keeping house isn’t to finish, but to keep it functional. If my expectation is that something is finished, I will get frustrated the next time I have to do it again. But if I change my mindset to functionality, the whole process softens into something more sustainable.

The third thing I love about this book is the statement, “Self-care was never meant to be a replacement for community care.” There’s a whole lovely section on this, but one of my takeaways is the reminder that we still need each other. I can do the best I can with every resource and ounce of energy I have and still not finish all the things. It’s not just OK to help each other; it’s critical.

Anyway, this is easily one of my top five favorite books on keeping house. Highly recommend, especially if shame and unreasonable expectations tend to immobilize you. This book will help.

I’m writing about keeing house for 31 days. You can browse the topic list here!

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At any given moment, my book collection is either the most organized part of my home or the most out of control. There are just so, so many of them. I love being surrounded by books, but if I’m not careful, I’m tripping over them just as often as I’m reading them.

All my bookshelves have a specific purpose. For example, most of my nonfiction belongs on the large metal bookshelf in the office. Library books and other borrowed books share a shelf with music collection in my bedroom so that they don’t get mixed in with the books I own. Fiction, memoir, cookbooks, short stories, and poetry – all my beloved genres have a specific place they belong.

The challenge is getting the books to where they belong, especially when they’re new. While I’m really going for a home library that is full of anticipated books, some of which I recognize I may never read, the decision to keep a book is not automatic. I have monthly subscriptions at a couple of independent bookstores (specifically, Deep Vellum in Dallas and Fantastic Strangelings through Nowhere in San Antonio), and I frequent library book sales and yard sales where I 100% judge books by their covers, so it’s anyone’s guess as to what I will actually bring home. I always seem to be obtaining books, and not all of them are ultimately meant to remain in my personal collection.

Of course, this means that they’re already in my home before I vet them and decide they need a permanent place there. The shelf by my reading chair in the living room is devoted to this purpose. It houses new-to-me books that I’m not sure I’m keeping yet. It also keeps the books that I’m planning to read next stacked in a neat little pile for my convenience.

This month’s TBR is loosely inspired by that shelf.

Aside from my book club reads, many of the books listed below are hanging out on this shelf – in limbo, awaiting a decision on their final destination. Hopefully, my reading this month can make a dent in deciding which ones to keep and which ones to pass on to someone else.

[Disclaimer – I am a Bookshop.org affiliate – I get a cut of the sales from most of the links below.]

Book Clubs

Cozy(ish) October Vibes

Cozy horror is an odd category. I’m drawn to it. In fact, it may be quickly becoming one of my favorite genres. 

Most genre-ists define it with elements of gentle supernatural components, low stakes, lovable/misunderstood monsters/creatures, and maybe a quirky, small-town environment with a smattering of snarky talking animals. It is likely to heavily feature a coffee shop, bakery, or niche store that caters to a granny hobby.

I do love books that fall into that definition of cozy horror, and my definition certainly includes them, but it is also broader than that.

I define the genre as horror…but make it funny. Many of the descriptions of the books I place in this category contain phrases like “darkly humorous” or “charmingly gruesome.” The ending may not be happy in the traditional, sunshine-y sense, but it will probably be satisfying, and that’s just as good.

October’s an especially great month for cozy horror. Or dragons. Or both.

Reading Challenges

I’m not actively working toward my reading challenges that I have left, I’m finding at least one prompt that fits almost every book I finish. So I have another one that lacks one more prompt and a few more that I anticipate chipping away at this month.

  • Kingdom of Ash by Sarah J. Maas – Not only to finish this series and put it behind me but also to finish up the Overeducated Women With Cats challenge with the prompt “set in a fully invented world.”
  • “A book about books” is the October prompt for Read Your Bookshelf. I have so many; it shouldn’t be hard to find one. Possibly even on that shelf of to-be-curated books.
  • The Hacienda by Isabel Cañas – Originally planned for January/February, this satisfies the prompts “a diacritical mark on the cover” and “gothic fiction written in the last 10 years.” Gothic fiction often intersects with cozy horror, so it’s at least theme adjacent.

Where do your books live in your home?

I’m writing about keeping house for 31 days. Click here to see the topic list!

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I know it’s still hot outside, but September is always when something noticeably changes in the air (even if it’s not the temperature). School is already underway, and students are settling into their schedules. We are starting to make hopeful plans that may involve the outdoors as soon as the weather gets itself together. This is the beginning of peak cozy season. 

This is also the season when the reading plans I made at the start of the year begin to derail a little/even more than they have already. 

At this point, I have usually finished at least one reading challenge already, and I’m feeling smug about that. So the rest of them? Good luck to them. I will still try (ish) and probably finish at least one or two more, especially if I experience a hyperfocus period or two, but I stop making real promises to any of them in the fall. This month, I’ll probably read books planned for some of the prompts listed on previous TBRs. And the books I have listed below are likely to fit into at least one unfinished prompt, so that counts. But the intense drive I had months ago to pick the very best books that will fit each of the prompts? That’s pretty much gone at this point.

For fall, I tend to focus on themes.

In addition to my cozy and book club selections, this month’s theme is mystery. I’ve got a few series I’m working through or re-reading, so I’ll probably continue those, and I’ve listed a couple extra down below. 

[Disclaimer – I am a Bookshop.org affiliate – I get a cut of the sales from most of the links below.]

Book Clubs

Cozy/Library Returns

Part of my cozy curriculum this month is reducing the number of books I have checked out of the library. I will not tell you how many I have checked out. Suffice it to say that you would not be wrong to judge me for it, so go ahead. By the end of the month, I want to return at least half of them, which will result in a respectable number of checkouts

Mystery Month

I’m planning to read the next book in the Three Pines, Thursday Murder Club, and some other series on my list. I’m also looking at tackling these in the upcoming weeks:

This plan may seem ambitious, but there’s method to the madness. I did the math on my overall reading goal (i.e., 200 books total) for this year last night. To meet the goal by December 31, I need to finish a book a day, minus 26 days. 

So…23-24 a month?

That’s fine. Everything’s fine. Totally doable. 

I mean, if I don’t meet it, I don’t meet it. That is, in fact, fine. I also get more relaxed (some might call it “reasonable,” but that feels like negative energy to me) about my overall goal as the year progresses.

What are you reading these days?

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The last few weeks have been hella busy. I need some serious downtime. I’m looking forward to a bookish weekend (and hopefully getting my wi-fi in my apartment fixed soon – it’s a whole saga). 

Notable things from the intrawebs in the past few weeks:

  • If you are looking for some reading that feels like summer, Modern Mrs. Darcy has suggestions! 
  • This is one of the best explanations of queerness I’ve ever read – from Dr. Devon Price.
  • In her online community and her book Burn the Haystack, Dr. Jennie Young helps readers identify rhetorical patterns in online dating profiles that are red flags or indicative of future problems. She recently got the question: “What if the red flags are already in your house?” I love her thoughtful answer.
  • I’ve been on a specific culinary kick lately – bean dishes you can eat with a spoon or scoop with a piece of crusty bread (my preference). One of my favorites is broccoli/cheddar beans. It’s like the soup but chunkier. Easy? Check. Fast? Check. Healthier than most of the take-out I get? Check.
  • And finally – Archer & Olive’s fall collection is out. I need another journal like I need a second nose, but look how pretty. I especially like the Reading Season ones.

I hope you have a great weekend, friends!

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August remains the busiest month at work at UNT after switching departments. In advising, we are finishing up orientation and helping students navigate difficulties as classes begin. I’m just delighted to be doing it all indoors and in our own building.

This August brings some exciting milestones in my reading year. I am so, so close to finishing my Libro.fm challenge. I think I can do it this month.

Without further ado…here are the books!

[Ok, a little further ado – a disclaimer. I am a Bookshop.org affiliate – I get a cut of the sales from most of the links below.]

Book Clubs

Cozy

Libro.fm

The end is in sight, and I’m pumped and up to the task! *Rocky theme song playing triumphantly in background* I got so excited when I started making this list in late July that I have already finished a couple of these books. 

  • A Thousand Feasts by Nigel Slater (narrated by Nigel Slater) – Listen to a genre you’ve never tried on audio before. As I have tried almost every genre I read on audio before, it was a challenge to find one to fit this prompt. So I had to go very specific. I can honestly say I’ve never read a foodie memoir written in short essay/vignette form and narrated by the author on audio before, and I am looking forward to it!
  • The Poppy War by R.F. Kuang (narrated by Emily Woo Zeller) – Listen to an audiobook by an author of Asian and/or Pacific Island descent. I liked this book, and the audio was…okay. I’m not sure I’m invested enough to commit to the series, though, and if I do, I’ll probably read the hard copy. The character development is good; I would expect no less from R.F. Kuang.
  • The Buffalo Hunter Hunter by Stephen Graham Jones (narrated by Shane Ghostkeeper, Marin Ireland, and Owen Teale) – Listen to an audiobook by an Indigenous author
  • Martyr! By Kaveh Akbar (narrated by Arian Moayed) – Listen to an audiobook by a South West Asian and/or North African author 
  • Off Menu by Amy Rosen (narrated by Emma Johnson) – Listen to an audiobook from an independent press. The main character is not a great person or friend; her only saving grace is that her parents aren’t great at giving sound advice or being supportive beyond their own agenda, so clearly she’s modeling their bad examples and I can give her a little grace for that (although…if one has the means to do so…and she does…therapy is a thing that adults can do to fill in the inevitable gaps left by their raising and *gestures broadly at the world*…I’m just saying…). Also, the romance trope in this book is one of my least favorites. Both of those things could be chalked up to personal preference (i.e., not necessarily making the book “bad” but just “not for me”). The reason I gave it a low rating, though, was that the writer also dealt with several heavy topics way too lightly – almost flippantly. I suppose it could be argued that the flippancy was due to the (selfish, toxically positive) main character’s voice, but it landed as an excuse not to address the heaviness of the situations in the writing itself. It’s unusual for me to give a 2-star review (I usually just don’t finish if I’m getting so little out of it, but the book was short and checked a box on the challenge), but that was all the enthusiasm I could muster for this book.
  • Plan or join an audiobook outing (third time’s the charm) – I have struggled with this prompt, so I finally just googled “audiobook outing near me” and came across a book club at a local yarn store. As I understand it, they start an audiobook together at their meeting that they listen to while crafting, and they are tasked with finishing the audiobook by the next meeting. So I think I’m going to give it a try. If that doesn’t pan out, I’m just going to take a drive while listening to Flashlight by Susan Choi (narrated by Eunice Wong), and call it a day.

Anti Brain Rot

52 Book Club 

  • The Ministry of Time by Kaliane Bradley – Set in the Arctic or Antarctic
  • Life After Life by Kate Atkinson – Spans a decade or more
  • Martyr! By Kaveh Akbar (narrated by Arian Moayed) – Award-winning book from last year
  • Theo of Golden by Allen Levi – Includes a handwritten interior font
  • Maame by Jessica George – Domestic fiction

Overeducated Women With Cats

Popsugar

  • The Poppy War by R.F. Kuang (narrated by Emily Woo Zeller) – A book with “pop” or “sugar” in the title
  • Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Reid – A book about women astronauts

Read Your Bookshelf

  • Water Moon by Samantha Sotto Yambao – water word (in title or on cover)

I hope you have a wonderful August, full of your favorite things.

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This week has felt 14,325 days long. I even had Monday off work, but that feels so long ago, I can’t even remember what I did. 

Probably read? Probably cleaned? Maybe went to the library? Who knows?

Next week, I have Friday off to travel to the farm and help take care of some practical things for Mom and Dad. Then it will be August, and I’ll actually go back to working full weeks again (I’ve had a lot of time off in July, which has been nice). Maybe I’ll get to start working from home part of the time in August? Perhaps? We will see.

In the meantime, here are some things that have been helpful to me this week:

  • This may sound mean, but I’m so glad Nadia Bolz-Weber is bad at meditation. Me, too. But even stumbling at it is helpful, so I do it, even when I do it badly. “Not because after five minutes of breathing exercises the geopolitical situation improves. It doesn’t. But because it improves my spiritual bone density.” Well said.
  • In a reading slump? It happens. I had a big ol’ slump in April-May-June-ish. I still read, but not nearly as much as I wanted to. I just could not focus. Regardless of why reading slumps happen, though, eventually they subside. Usually. Sometimes they need a little push. Such as a Couch to 5K…but for reading. This is an amazing idea, and I love how detailed the plan is.
  • I am HEAVILY invested in the blossoming love life of Trenchfoot and Doughboy. Jessica introduced me to them, and I’m so happy. Team Trenchfoot. Doughboy needs to grow up if he’s going to be her baby’s father. Get it together, my dude. Riveted.
  • I have been planning to write a post about my summer bucket list for about a month. Reading isn’t the only thing that’s slumping in my world. So I’m just living vicariously through Joy the Baker’s lists – Part 1 and Part 2. I may still write my own (at this point, my list is just “Survive August in Texas”), but I also may just make a spin on her peach melba ice cream and call it a day. I think that’s good enough.
  • Speaking of sweet treats, this is on my list of things to try. It’s took hot in Texas right now to mail chocolate, but there’s a shop nearby that sells it. I feel an adventure coming up soon!

Edited to add: It’s National Tequila Day. Proceed accordingly.

I hope you have a good weekend, friends!

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This week, I puzzled out an issue and solved a problem that a transfer student had been worrying about all summer. I feel good about that. That’s my favorite thing that happened this week.

Also, smart people said/wrote some lovely things on the internet:

  • At the risk of turning my blog into a Mamdani fangirl account (sorry, not sorry)…his speech marking our country’s 250th.
  • Ann Patchett on Whistler, being a good literary citizen, and the best book coming out this year.
  • I love Andi’s piece on her evening routine – Plump Silence and Golden Light.
  • I want to print this out and hand it to every parent at orientation this summer – Gorgeous words on letting go by Addie Zierman.
  • Heather Havrilesky once again puts into words what I’m going through. Working with college students (and *ahem* also people in their 20s and 30s and sometimes 40s…when did I become the old person in the room?), I see them despair a lot, wondering if everyone is awful and everything is broken. Yes, in general, but also really no. There’s a lot of beauty and kindness below the surface. It takes some energy to see it, but if you’re already pouring vast amounts of effort into despair, maybe set aside a little of that for wonder and curiosity. It will make your life (and, dare to hope, your relationships) so much better. My life goal is to always remain curious about new ideas, new skills, and especially the people around me. 

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The Dewey Reverse Readathon is this weekend. What makes it reverse, you ask? It runs evening to evening (7:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., my time)  instead of morning to morning (7:00 a.m. to 7:00 a.m.), so that, at least once a year, we are accommodating our internet friends in different time zones for whom our morning start falls at weird times. 

As an added bonus, this also accommodates those of us for whom waking up and starting anything at 7:00 a.m. is a special kind of torture and not fun at all.

Or one can just treat the readathon like I do, regardless of whether it is a regular or reverse event – start Friday night and extend into Sunday afternoon-ish. Why limit it to 24 hours? I nap and snack at weird intervals, but it’s an intensive reading weekend. This year, I’ve even taken Monday off to give myself time to reacclimate to a reasonable bedtime/schedule before having to be a human at work again.

I have read ahead far enough for my book clubs that there are no pressing deadlines in the upcoming week, so I don’t really need to include those in my plans. The themes of my selections for this reading retreat are fun and library books. That is, I have a lot of fun books (mostly next-in-series romance) on my recent TBRs that I have put off due to finishing the book on hold for someone else at the library or the book we were discussing at the next book club. 

Also, I have a lot of library books out, and some have holds on them. It seems to be a perpetual problem. One might point out that this could be solved by just waiting for the hype to die down and reading all the books I have at home. One can hush. We don’t need that kind of negativity here.

[Aside: I think I need a fun-read year in 2027. Yes, still a few challenges and my book club selections. But mostly fun. *ponders*]

The book stack I will be choosing from this weekend (and by “this weekend,” I definitely mean I started the first book last night):

[Disclaimer – I am a Bookshop.org affiliate – I get a cut of the sales from most of the links below.]

Additionally, I have some poetry and design books that I might dabble in. Or a book that spontaneously catches my fancy. Really, reading weekends are for reading exactly what I want. Even if it’s 30 pages each of 20 different books. Or one long book. Or a lot of audiobooks while I work on a craft project. It could be very structured or a chaotic mess, and I love seeing how it plays out.

I’ve already got my easy meals and snacks set up, and I’m washing sheets and blankets tonight to make sure I have all the cozy comfort that I will want to be readily available to me. 

Now I just need to get through two orientation days, and I’ll be ready to read!

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If I were to become suddenly and inexplicably wealthy, a house with a pool might be one of my top five purchases. That’s really the only way to deal with Texas summers.

Other than the oppression of the outdoors, July looks pretty promising. There are some fun things on the horizon – i.e., a couple of live music shows I’m going to, a reading retreat, a few other fun bookish events, and maybe a trip to the farm.

And, of course, rampant reading. After a minor slump, I’ve been finishing books left and right. Hopefully, that will continue this month with the help of these reads.

[Disclaimer – I am a Bookshop.org affiliate – I get a cut of the sales from most of the links below.]

Book Clubs

Anti Brain Rot

Popsugar

  • The Sugar Queen by Sarah Addison Allen – A book with “Pop” or “Sugar” in the title
  • The Bright Side Running Club by Josie Lloyd – A book with a character who runs a marathon (I think? Or she just starts running? We will see.)
  • Yes, Yes, Cherries by Mary Otis – A book with any type of fruit on the cover or in the title

52 Book Club

  • In a Sunburned Country by Bill Bryson – Author’s first and last name start with the same letter
  • Horrorstör by Grady Hendrix – Literary device: personification (maybe – can’t find spoilers to confirm)
  • Shark Heart by Emily Habeck – Inspired by the top-grossing movie the year you were born (Jaws, because of course it was)

Libro.fm

Nowhere

Overeducated Women With Cats

  • Kingdom of Ash by Sarah J. Maas – A book set in a fully invented world

Bad Bitch Book Club

Read Your Bookshelf 

I hope your July is full of joy and pleasant surprises!

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