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31 Days - Friday Five

Reading is one of the main ways I stay inspired, so it’s no surprise that reading about running is something I do more often when I’m trying to establish or maintain a regular running practice. Other than making my way through best-books-on-running lists (like this one), I also subscribe to various running websites. Here are a few of my favorites:

  1. Haruki  Murakami’s What I Talk About When I Talk About Running is delightful. He touches on issues like aging and self-awareness in the context of his habit of long-distance running.
  2. This month, I am measuring my mileage with mapmyrun (also available in app form, but my phone and I are old and set in our ways…so no). I also enjoy reading their blog, especially when they have gems like “7 Things Runners Should Know As We Get Older.” I like the use of the first person “we.” Very diplomatic, mapmyrun.
  3. Runners World is a great magazine for tips and tricks and motivation. I also subscribe to their newsletter.
  4. Myfitnesspal (also an app…also no for me…but you do you) is a great place to keep track of food and activity. I also enjoy their blog, specifically for ideas on form and strength training.
  5. Possibly my favorite book on running ever, Bart Yasso’s My Life on the Run is as inspirational as it is entertaining. He talks about the many places he has been, and while I can’t see myself running in Antarctica or Death Valley or anywhere there are rhinoceroses roaming about, reading about his adventures makes me remember why I like running.

Do you have recommendations?

 

I am spending 31 days running wild.

Day 5 – Hydration

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Don’t leave home without it!

The week I’m talking about hydration is the short week. More accurately, it’s two days. There’s not a lot to say about hydration except, “Do it.”

Our bodies need water, and they need more than a lot of us drink. If I don’t think about it, I might drink 20 ounces of water a day. That is abysmal. Sure, I get water from tea and vegetables and fruit, but still. That is not enough.

There are many websites out there that tell you how much water you need. Some of them will tell you to get a certain number of ounces, period. Some of them will offer you a way to input a few factors and then calculate how much you need (keep in mind that the calculation in that link is for the hours that you spend exercising. Otherwise, that is sooo much water and probably not necessary). Most of them include amounts as part of a larger discussion on how to tell you are getting enough water. I like those the best.

We each have different hydration needs depending on various factors: age, weight, activity level, etc. Through trial and error, I have discovered that I operate best on about 100 ounces of water a day. If I am more active some days (or if I’m spending time out in Texas’s signature heat), I will add 10-20 ounces on those days to compensate for the extra water loss through sweat.

If you are starting to add more activity to your life, what I encourage you to do is try out different levels of fluid intake and see how it affects you. Then you can make the choice that is best for you.

 

I’m spending 31 days running wild.

Day 4 – Fuel

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Carb-load, you say? Don’t mind if I do.*

*Warning: eating this much pasta at once might come closer to inspiring you to lie on the couch rather than replenishing you. There’s a difference between fueling and outright gluttony.

One thing I love about having a regular running practice is that I don’t necessarily monitor what I eat, but I end up eating better anyway. I tend to cut out soda, because running (walking…hiking…breathing) on days that I’ve had a Dr. Pepper is so much harder. I had a Cherry Coke today, and I thought that little hill back to the office was going to kill me. I am also not a fan of running when I’ve had a lot of dairy-intense food, regardless of how many pills I’ve taken to corral the lactose. I tend to stop doing things that make me feel extra exhausted or nauseated.

I also more readily notice food that gives me more energy. I eat pasta more often than usual, but instead of the ratio of pasta-to-vegetable pictured above, it reverses. Veggies become the stars of the dish. I tend to eat more fruit, and I tend to eat more eggs.

I have tried to follow several recommended diet plans for runners in the past. These are not bad plans. Most of them tell you to eat real food and stop eating junk, which is good advice for anyone, really. My focus would wane, though, after about the first couple of weeks (i.e., after the first round of groceries disappeared). I also found I had to tweak most plans too much to make them work for me. So I made my own plan. Running is probably what taught me to meal plan effectively.

What are your go-to snacks/meals when you are increasing your activity level?

 

I’m spending 31 days running wild. 

Day 3 – Rest

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Swollen, raggedy feet. Lest you think my running life is glamorous.

When you are training for a race, a good trainer will tell you that rest days are as important as run days. Rest can help alleviate soreness and prevent injury. For me, rest gives me something to look forward to, especially in the early days of training when it’s the hardest to be motivated.

What constitutes rest will depend on your fitness level. For a triathlete who is a couple of weeks away from the race, rest could look like 20 leisurely laps in the pool or a 1-mile jog.

That is not what rest looks like for me. That is what a workout looks like for me.

At my current stage of fitness, rest for me is a slow walk. I’m talking mosey-level walking. Like…barely moving and smelling all the roses. Or it’s an extended stretching period (i.e., 30-45 minutes instead of my usual 15-20), minus the preliminary walking/running. The last time I was running regularly, rest days were spent in the pool, doing side-stroke laps or treading water for a half hour.

Rest days can also be just rest. Not doing any activity other than your normal getting-through-the-day. Whatever gives your muscles a chance to relax and rebuild, that counts as rest.

That kind of rest is the easy part.

Good sleep and psychological rest are also important to overall wellness. These are trickier for me.

I do fall asleep more easily when I’m active, but I still wake up several times a night as per my usual habits. Later this month, I’ll be talking more about good sleep practice, sharing tricks learned from others and what worked for me when I was working night shift.

Psychological rest is often elusive for me. It’s not that I don’t know what works. It’s just that those things are hard to want when in the throes of distress. Especially when there is cake in the house. Cake, however, freaks all my chemicals out and does not help me.

*whispers* It’s so delicious, though…

I need to work on incorporating best practices for rest into my life.

What are your best practices?

 

I’m spending 31 days running wild.

Day 2 – Safety

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When I’m up this early in the morning, clutching a coffee cup makes everyone around me safer.

When I run or walk – no matter where I’m going – safety is my primary concern.

Nothing is more frustrating than hurting myself because I’m pushing too far past what my body can do. I want to set a training schedule and stick to it so much that sometimes I don’t pay as much attention to pain as I should. I haven’t been consistently active in my body at this size, so I am still learning through trial and error where the limits lie.

I need to learn (or at least refresh my memory) the strengthening exercises that make running safer. I need to remember to stretch instead of just collapsing into a chair at the end.

In the past, running has been an effective way to deal with anxiety, but sometimes, running induces it instead. Watching the news, particularly on weeks like this, make staying inside with the door locked seem really attractive. If I go out, I want it to be under very strict guidelines. I want it to be daytime so that the path cannot help but be well lit. I am hesitant to go without people I know, even if the place I’m going is well populated, because you never know who is lurking within that population, looking for the weakest of the herd. I sometimes come across as the weakest of the herd. Walking or running with friends takes care of the nerves, but friends aren’t always available.

I need to unlearn a little of the fear. To some extent, it is realistic and healthy. I will still take certain precautions (not going it alone in the dark, for example). But I also need to practice walking in it, because while those with malicious intent may very well be out there on my path, they don’t get to control me. I won’t stay caged for my own protection. That’s not the sort of life I want to live.

And that’s the question this issue of safety asks – what do I want my life to be? Do I want to be sedentary, unsure of my body and what it can do? Do I want to stay where I am comfortable or challenge myself to grow?

How are you challenging yourself physically? How are you challenging yourself otherwise?

 

I’m spending 31 days running wild.

 

 

Running Wild 1.3

My 31 Days series this year is going to be about running. This post is going to be a deconstruction of what I mean by “running wild.” We will be taking rampant liberties with the phrase.

First, a disclaimer – I am an amateur. I am not a coach, nutritionist, physical therapist, or trained professional of anything that has to do with running. I am not even particularly good at running. Some days, I am barely good at walking. This is simply a 31-day project to get me out of the house (read: out of my comfort zone), and the posts will be a combination of how that’s going and what I’ve learned.

Expect many references.

The main goal is to walk/run 50 miles in the course of the month. That should be a doable goal, even for someone starting from scratch. What I am hoping is that there is a little something for everyone here.

I will be mostly walking, because what I do know about running is that, unless you are in reasonably good shape already, it’s not something to jump right into. I’m going to have to work up to it. Again. For those of you who are looking to add more activity in your life, I invite you to join our discussions about how you’re easing into it, as I will be doing the same.

I will also be reflecting on the challenges of walking with friends vs. the challenges of walking alone. I don’t know about you, but I am more consistent with my workouts when there is someone who is depending on me to go with them. I also know that busy schedules keep that from always being feasible. I get nervous when I go alone, and I talk myself out of it. If you have something to say about staying motivated when you’re on your own, or if you have a brilliant plan for making schedules work with others, there will be days to discuss that.

Part of the month is going to be about body image. One of the reasons I don’t like to run (or exercise at all, really) out in public is that I do not look like a runner. There will be people whose reaction to this is, “A runner doesn’t look a particular way.” They, of course, are technically correct. I know this. I know the right answers about body image and body positivity. That does not in any way erase the reality of the struggle, at least not for me. There will be days we will talk about that.

I will be running wild. Probably not in the wild. Don’t be absurd. I’m not changing personalities. But I will be exploring areas I haven’t been before.

Each week will follow a basic structure. This week, I am introducing the four themes of the month: safety, rest, fuel, and hydration. Each Sunday is the week overview. Monday-Thursday are topics related to week’s theme. Friday will usually involve five outside sources pertaining to the week’s theme. And Saturday will be my progress report on how my goal to run/walk 50 miles is going, as well as a discussion of my favorite place I walked/ran that week.

Each day in the series will be linked below:

Day 1 – Overview (this post)
Day 2 – Safety
Day 3 – Rest
Day 4 – Fuel
Day 5 – Hydration
Day 6 – Friday Five: What I Read About When I Read About Running
Day 7 – Progress and Paradox
Day 8 – Safety Week Overview
Day 9 – Gear Up
Day 10 – Good Form
Day 11 – Rules of the Road
Day 12 – Running in the Dark
Day 13 – Friday Five: Five Moves for Safety
Day 14 – Week 2 Progress Report
Day 15 – Rest Week Overview
Day 16 – Rest Days
Day 17 – Sleep
Day 18 – Un-damage Your Calm
Day 19 – Sabbath
Day 20 – Friday Five: A Body at Rest
Day 21 – Week 3 Progress Report
Day 22 – Fuel Week Overview
Day 23 – What I Eat
Day 24 – What I Avoid
Day 25 – Decadence
Day 26 – Moderation
Day 27 – Friday Five: Snacks for Runners
Day 28 – Week 4 Progress Report
Day 29 – Hydration Overview
Day 30 – Water Wonder
Day 31 – Project Recap

I’m also linking up with Crystal Stine’s Write 31 Days project. If you want to explore what others are writing, hover over the “Linking Up” tab at the top and choose a category.

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Today is the 14th (14th!!!) birthday of one of the best kids on the planet and also National Coffee Day. Here is a selection of my favorite reading material from the week to peruse while you enjoy your morning (or afternoon, depending on where you are) cup.

  1. Good listeners are my favorite people of all. I am happy to share a country with both of these men.
  2. Signature shared an excerpt from Leila Janah’s book, Give Work: Reversing Poverty One Job at a Time, which is definitely going on my to-read list.
  3. I “Yes!”-ed and “Exactly!”-ed my way through Gemma Hartley’s piece on the toll of doing the bulk of the emotional labor in a relationship. When I think of wanting to be married, this is one of the top issues that gives me pause. I don’t want to be the team manager.
  4. Yay, free coffee!
  5. Or make your own – how to make cold brew. As I do not keep cheesecloth in stock at the house, I use my French press or Pampered Chef’s cold brew pitcher.

Happy Friday!

Poem, Found

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Prompt: Take lines from your favorite poet and rearrange them into a found poem.

From poems by Anne Sexton – That Story

You always read about it.

outside the summer flies sing like a choir

into your redeeming skin

We are of little faith.

We talk too much.

There is so much abundance

And how I came to this place

as your heart falls out of your mouth

loving me with my shoes off

and picking wild blueberries

You do drink me.

for I am at the mercy of rain

luscious and round and sleek

That story.

 

Friday Five Minus One

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Happy Friday to you! I only have four things to share this week, but there’s a lot to chew on in some of them.

  1. Jane Friedman’s post on social media for authors was a soothing balm to me. Particularly these sentences: “It works best when you can see it as play, as a natural extension of your work. As soon as you carve it out as the ‘marketing and promotion’ part of work/life, your results may be lackluster.” Sometimes, I worry about my online presence, as the bulk of my writing time is spent in offline projects and SEO stuff. Then when I do post on social media, I feel like it has to really be something special. So I end up not posting for longer. It’s possible I’m overthinking it and just need to play.
  2. Melissa Febos via  Catapult urges us to fight the expectations placed on us (…that we place on ourselves also?) to better manage our time and get work done. I like any advice that tells me to ignore emails (except for customer emails at work, of course).
  3. If there’s one thing I love about the upcoming female remake of Lord of the Flies, it’s the opportunity it provides for satire. The last faux excerpt on this list is my favorite:

    “Murder?!” asked Erica.

    “Literally the only thing we’re trying to do on this island is not die. Why—” but Sam couldn’t finish her sentence. She was laughing too hard.

  4. The 2017 Texas Book Festival. I am going to this one year. This might not be the year, but maybe. I haven’t been to Austin in a while.

So that’s my week. Give me a fifth – what have you read this week that you liked?

Art and Story

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“This week I challenge you to write about something you really don’t care about.”

When I got this prompt, I thought, “Oh, that’s easy. I do that all the time. Welcome to SEO writing.” But I hit a wall and weeks passed and nothing. Turns out, if I’m going to write about something I don’t initially care about, I at least want to get paid for it. Also, I like knowing things, so by the time I’ve read enough to write an article about it, I find at least one aspect of it fascinating.

For all of my life, I’ve wanted to care more about art. I have lived with art history majors and artists. As their friend, I care about what is important to them, because that’s how friendship works. So I do care about art…in general. I am glad there is art in the world. I believe that the arts in general and visual art in particular are vital to our well-being as a human race.

But as soon as I got this prompt – particularly the aspect of the prompt that said to consider something “that you really just fall asleep listening to people talk” – art was the first thing that came to mind. I will go to a museum with someone (especially if it’s a special event where wine is served), but I will not be the one to suggest it. I will support (i.e., purchase and/or encourage others to purchase) art from friends and local artists, but have a low threshold for lengthy, rambling conversations about the more technical aspects of producing the drawing, painting, or sculpture.

Where art grabs my attention is in the story.

The piece that springs to mind is Ecce Homo by Antonio Ciseri. In this painting (the title translates as “Behold the Man”), we see Pilate presenting Jesus to the crowd. Jesus has been beaten. The most striking character is Pilate’s wife. She’s the only one looking away, and the look on her face reminds us that she warned Pilate not to mess with Jesus – that she’d had a terrible dream about what might befall him if he did. And now her husband has not only neglected to heed her advice but is presenting Jesus for more torture. I didn’t respond to the painting at first glance, but when I learned the story behind it, my reaction was visceral.

When people tell me the story behind a piece or where their minds or souls were when they were creating it, I am interested. Therein lies its beauty to me.