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I write my shopping list directly in my planner – i.e., my lifeline – so that I know I won’t forget it.

Once you finish the meals you can make now, your next steps will be preparing for and going to the grocery store. This, however, is not going to be a regular store visit.

Three times during this process, you will have a specific shopping list and grocery trip, and they all have different purposes. The purpose of the first list/trip is to help you finish reducing the pantry to its bare bones so that it is ready to be built up with the staples that you use regularly.

In order to do this, though, you will need to confess.

That jar or box you still have in your pantry that you did not give away, throw away, or find a use for? You know the one I’m talking about – don’t try to act innocent with me.

We need to find something to do with it. We need to find something to do with all the things in your pantry or refrigerator that you don’t use very often but couldn’t bring yourself to get rid of when you were cleaning them.

When I first started putting my meal planning system in place, I had jars and jars of pickles. I had taken a canning class, and that was one of the things we made. It was a great class; I enjoyed it immensely.

The problem is that pickles aren’t my favorite food. I like pickle slices on hamburgers, and I will occasionally eat a pickle spear as part of an antipasto plate. But I had opened one of the jars for myself, and I had given several jars to friends. I still had five jars of pickles left. I knew that if I didn’t do something with them before I started filling my pantry back up, those five jars would stay there indefinitely, taking up space where food I actually wanted to eat could be stored.

So I searched for recipes that used pickles. For the next two months, my diet was pickle-intensive. I ate:

  • Pickle slices in my grilled cheese
  • Pickle hummus
  • Pickle chunks in tuna salad
  • Pickle chunks in pasta salad
  • Fried pickles
  • Pickle-brined chicken breast

With every meal until those jars were gone, if I could throw a pickle in it, I did.

(Do not try to make savory pickle waffles, even if you liberally spread sour cream all over them. Oh, the humanity! /psa)

I got really sick of pickles. You know what else I got? I got rid of all those jars so that I could move on with my life.

And that is what I want for you. So here are your tasks for this step:

  • Identify your outlier ingredients that you held onto.
  • Search for recipes in which to use said ingredients.
  • Based on the recipes, make a shopping list of the things you will need to buy in order to use up those ingredients. Be very specific about the amounts needed and make plans to purchase as close to exactly what you need as possible, because if you just end up accumulating an overflow of different random items, that doesn’t help you.
  • Plot the meals you will make with these recipes on the next open spots on your calendar.

This may be the weirdest shopping list you’ve ever made and the weirdest food you’ve ever eaten. I promise it won’t last forever (although if you have five jars of pickles, it may seem that way). When you are finished with this phase, you will actually have the space in your kitchen to make it start working better for you.

 

I’m sharing my Epic Meal Planning Strategies for Write 31 Days – click to see the master list.

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Sometimes, when the weather is hotter than I like (i.e., approximately 96.84% of the time), I crank up the A/C so I can snuggle in a blanket and pretend Texas has real seasons.

 

This is one of my favorite steps of the Epic Meal Planning process. This is the part of the process where I get to put a number on exactly how many days I could feed myself without leaving the house. This nourishes my rich fantasy of one day being a hermit.

I’m kidding. Sort of. Most days.

Let’s move on.

Today, we will break out our calendars and write down meals that we can make right now without having to buy anything extra to put with them. We are going to identify meals, count servings, and plan the days that we can go without shopping.

Identify meals

If you already cook a lot, this part will be easy. After spending the last couple of days peering at your fridge and pantry, you could probably do it without even looking. If you don’t cook a lot, take a few minutes and look back at your inventories to see what you have available. It’s not cheating to search for an ingredient via Google or Pinterest and see if there’s something interesting you can do with it.

List the different types of meals you can make. In order to count as a meal, it has to be able to make enough to feed everyone you feed on a daily basis at least once. For me, that’s one, but if you have a spouse/kids/roommates, you, of course, will make sure your ingredients cover enough for them, too.

Example: Right now, I can make…

  1. pasta and some sort of sauce
  2. pizza
  3. antipasti platters
  4. chicken salad
  5. frittata
  6. vegetable soup

I also note that I have sufficient breakfast supplies for three or four weeks.

Count servings

After you know what you can make, you need to determine how much of it you can make. This will determine your number of servings. Take your list above and calculate the number of times you can get a full meal out of the ingredients (again, a meal – even of leftovers – equals a meal for everyone you feed). If it’s something you can cook twice (see examples below), note that as well.

Example:

  1. pasta and some sort of sauce – 8 servings (cook twice – 4 servings each)
  2. pizza – 12 servings (cook three times – 4 servings each)
  3. antipasti platters (cheese, deli meat, bread, olives, roasted red peppers) – 6 servings
  4. chicken salad – 4 servings
  5. frittata – 6 servings
  6. vegetable soup – 6 servings

I’m ridiculously excited about these numbers.

Plan your days

Pull out your calendar. First, choose the days when you are going to cook. If you have multiple servings, and you embrace leftovers, try to space out your initial meal cooking days. Keep in mind days when you have plans in the evening to make sure you have time to cook.

Once you have all your meals plotted on their cooking days, fill in the extra servings on subsequent meal times. Try not to stretch one meal too long, because mold and bacteria are not proper food groups.

Example:

After plotting cooking days and taking into account meal times when I have planned to go out with friends (and thus don’t need to plan for a meal at home), I can eat heartily without going to the grocery store for about three and a half weeks. My inner hermit rejoices!

 

All hermit “jokes” aside, I actually recommend going through this step before each trip to the grocery store, particularly if it’s not your favorite errand. Either you will discover some hidden gem meals that allow you to postpone your market trip (and the hefty bill that goes with it) for a little while, or the random meals you find will be so unappetizing that a trip to the store will suddenly seem fun in comparison to enduring them. Either way, you win.

I’m sharing my Epic Meal Planning strategies for Write 31 Days – click to see the master list.

 

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I confess an unholy obsession with jarred roasted peppers.

My pantry stays pretty well organized. Before you prepare to pat me on the back and ring out a hearty, “Great job!” you should know that this accomplishment is due more to the necessity of small space rather than to my organizational diligence. I have six shelves that are approximately a square foot apiece, and those few shelves house all shelf-stable food – from dry beans and jars of sauce to baking basics.

I was raised on a farm under the wide West Texas sky, so I like a lot of space. For everything. I have a few friends who love the tiny house movement, and when they post pictures of their favorite layouts, I think, “Oh, what a cute closet that is.”

But being short of space in the pantry has been a gift. It means that unless I want my stockpile to leak out onto my table and cabinet tops (which I do not, for the record), I have to keep it organized. It forces me to use the space wisely. I have to keep in mind what items are staples (which we will discuss later this week) and what items are extraneous.

Today, you have two tasks:

Task 1 – Take inventory of your pantry space by answering these questions:
1. How much space do you have? Is it enough? Is it too much?
2. Which of the items currently in your pantry are staples (i.e., things you use frequently)? Which of the items currently in your pantry are extras (e.g., junk food, leftover jars from a former recipe that you no longer plan to use, etc.)?

Task 2 – Reorganize your pantry, prioritizing things you will actually use. To do this, follow these steps:

  • Take everything out of the pantry and set it on a table or some other open space.
  • Divide items into these categories: keepers (things you know you will use within the next month or two), give-aways (things you will not use but can still be used by someone), and throw-aways (things you will not use and should not be ingested by anyone ever).
  • Cut your pantry space in half. Yes – half. Don’t worry – this will not last, and you’ll have your space back by next week. We’re just carving out a little space to work with when we talk about staples.
  • In your new, smaller space, put your keeper items back in. They may not all fit right now, and that’s okay. Just leave them out in the organizing space, and alert family, housemates, etc., that they are a temporary work in progress.
  • Find friends or a local food bank where you can donate your give-aways. Toss your throw-aways in the garbage.

Once you have completed this, you will be ready to make your first meal plan tomorrow!

 

I’m sharing my Epic Meal Planning strategies for Write 31 Days – click to see the master list.

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Ominous-looking, isn’t it? Don’t be scared – show it who’s boss!

Before you can plan, before you can shop, before you can cook – you must take inventory. In the next few days, we will look at your pantry, make lists of all the things you could make without going to the store, and then make your first grocery list based on the things that you just need one or two ingredients to make something awesome (because you can’t wait to eat until the end of this month).

 Today, we are going to talk about the refrigerator.

 My fridge is my least favorite place to clean. No matter how many times I got advice from Mom or how many books/articles I read on the subject, the fridge is the one place that always seemed to get away from me. I’d do pretty well for a while, but soon I had more leftovers and weird odds and ends than I knew what to do with. So I used to do nothing (because I’m very mature and not at all avoidant of unpleasant tasks) and that’s how I ended up with forgotten, unrecognizable goop in a jar in the back of the fridge more often that I’d like to admit.

 Nothing worked until I took inventory and decided – once and for all – what belongs in my fridge and what does not.

 Step one is knowing what is there, right at this moment. You can write everything down if seeing it in list form helps you. For this stage, I prefer taking pictures, because I’m better at organization when I can see it spatially laid out.

 Step two is deciding what goes where. For this step, I did make a list of fridge rules. Until I consistently followed the rules, I put them on the front of my fridge as a reminder. Your rules may not be the same as mine, but here are mine as an example:

 – No half jars of obscure ingredients that you only used once for that one recipe that you didn’t really like and have no plan or desire to use again. I’m looking at you, capers.

– Stay aware of expiration dates. Expired items are a telltale sign that I kept something I never meant to use. There are many helpful lists online, such as this one, that will help you keep track of how long different foods keep in the fridge.

– No items whose size extends beyond the use I intended for them. Did I like that specialty marinade? Sure. Did I like it enough to justify buying the economy size bottle? No. Can I really use two dozen eggs in a week? Probably not, so that coupon that only works if you buy two doesn’t actually work for me. It’s not a bargain if half of it goes to waste.

– Limit space available for drinks (e.g., coconut milk, juice, white wine, etc.) to avoid having a shelf of half-empty cartons and bottles that will go bad before you use them.

If you live alone, this will be easier than if you live with others, particularly if they have varying orange juice pulp needs. In this case, I recommend having a family meeting where each family member gets their own space. That way, everyone gets to be picky about one thing. The rest of the allotted space is for things you share. For this space, everyone gets a say, but not everyone gets their way.

– Fight the urge to buy good-intentions ingredients. This is anything you have no actual plan to eat in the future or anything that requires more effort to prepare than you know you’re willing to spend on it.

 You’ll notice that I only have five rules. I recommend a short list, simply because you are more likely to keep the rules if they are small in number. If I stick to these five guidelines, I keep a much cleaner fridge, which leads to greater meal planning ease.

 We would be remiss if we didn’t also talk about what the rules for the freezer are. Your rules, like mine, might be an extension of the fridge rules. The main difference is that my freezer rules are a bit more relaxed because things last longer (but not forever) in the freezer. The freezer gives me an idea of what next month’s meals could be.

 So today, take your inventory and make your list of rules. Tomorrow, we tackle the pantry!

I’m sharing my Epic Meal Planning strategies for Write 31 Days – click to see the master list.

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I have a calendar that hangs in my kitchen that is specifically for meal planning. Once a month, I pull it down and schedule specific shopping days and specific cooking days, and I decide what I’m going to cook and use that to create my grocery lists. I try to aim for Friday evenings for shopping days, and I really prefer having lightly scheduled weekends for cooking time so that I don’t have to cook during the week.

I like having a plan because it keeps me from making habitual terrible food choices that zap my energy.  I do not like having to find an hour or two a month to produce said plan.

Enter epic meal planning.

This level of meal planning is not for the faint of heart. It is structured and detailed but also magically flexible. This is go-on-a-dangerous-quest, feed-a-horde-of-hangry-dragon-slayers, survive-NaNoWriMo-without-gaining-20-pounds meal planning.

Once you’ve completed this process, you will be able to make each month’s plan to feed yourself and your loved ones – choices, schedule, and lists – in about ten minutes. And once you’ve done it, it works forever. I occasionally tweak my plan – add some new, exciting ingredient to kitchen staples, add a new recipe I liked, archive an old recipe that doesn’t seem appealing anymore – but that only takes a few minutes.

Having a structured plan doesn’t mean that you can never find a new recipe on Pinterest, go straight to the market, and make it that night. It also doesn’t mean you have to give up the drive-through forever. It does mean that you have something to work with on all the other days (and will help you say no to making the drive through a major habit). It perpetually answers the “What will we have for dinner?” question.

I’m so certain that this process will work for you like it works for me that I’m writing a book about it. It started as getting posts ready for Write 31 Days and has morphed into something larger. The book will include a lot of my own personal recipes and tips on how to expand the plan to fit your personal lifestyle, but this blog series will get you started.

Here are a few things to know about my approach before we get started:

– I looooove leftovers. I can happily eat the same thing three or four times a week, especially if I can throw a poached egg on top and call it breakfast. My favorite weeks are those when I have an open weekend where I can cook three or four meals and just eat on those the whole next week.

If you do not share this love, this will still work for you. You’ll just need to cook more often. If you despise leftovers or have intense appetites in your household that make leftovers as elusive and mythical as a unicorn, and you don’t already have a meal planning system in place, then we are going to be besties by the end of this month. Having a plan will revolutionize your life. You’re welcome, and I love you, too.

– I am not you; you are not I. The minute details of our meal planning will be different because we are different people with different lives. I am single, and I live alone in a spacious two-bedroom apartment with a not-spacious kitchen and an abysmal lack of food storage space. My kitchen staples are probably going to look a lot different from yours. That’s okay – there is still something to be learned from that step.You may have more storage space and thus more freedom in this area than I do, and I encourage you to embrace it.

You may also probably shop less often than I do. You probably have a real pantry and a full-size freezer in your utility room or garage. I commend you on your great use of space. Feel free to send me pictures so that I can live vicariously through you, as having a pantry and extra freezer is one of the top five reasons I’m saving up to buy a house. If you have the space and would like suggestions of freezers to buy, I have been making eyes at a couple of units at Lowe’s and would be happy to advise.

Focus on the instructions, not the examples. The purpose of examples is to see how concepts might be applied, not to become the concepts themselves. The goal of this month is to create a plan that works for you, and that probably won’t work if you’re trying to replicate exactly what I do and eat.

– I’m 41. I’ve been the adult who is primarily responsible for my nourishment for quite some time. Most of the information I will pass on in the next thirty days is from my own trial-and-error experience. I also read a lot on the subject of food, and I will give recommendations for further study whenever the opportunity arises.

If you are twenty and have moved out of the dorm and away from its meal plan into your first apartment, there may be some things that I’ve forgotten to include simply because I am old and forget that people don’t know how to do them. First of all – welcome, and good for you! If I had started doing this when I was twenty years old, I would be a lot healthier right now and wouldn’t have had to unlearn so many bad habits to get to a decent relationship with food. Second, please feel free to ask questions. That’s what a comment section is for. And third, if you are currently staring into the blank canvas that is your first kitchen, a couple of great additional resources for getting started are Alton Brown’s Gear for Your Kitchen and Kallio and Krastins’s The Stocked Kitchen.

– You can use a computer to collect recipes and compile your grocery lists, and I encourage this if you are starting fresh, because copy-paste-print is super efficient. If you prefer to kick it old school (as I do), you’ll need a recipe box with dividers, index cards, a pen, a hole punch, and a binder ring (for shopping purposes). For both methods, you will need some sort of calendar system to assign meals to days. Regardless of which method you use, once you’ve completed the overall process, meal planning will be a breeze.

If you want to review any section we have covered, they’ll all be archived here (archive may be delayed on days I’m without a computer, but all links will be up by the end of the month):

Section One – Pre-planning Phase: Taking Stock

Day 2 – Confronting the Fridge

Day 3 – Confronting the Cupboard

Day 4 – If I Got Snowed in Right Now…

Day 5 – Grocery List #1

Day 6 – Shopping Day #1

Section Two – Planning Phase 1: Making Lists

Day 7 – Basic Staples

Day 8 – Meal Staples

Day 9 – Saving Graces

Day 10 – Recipes for Fall

Day 11 – Recipes for Winter

Day 12 – Recipes for Spring

Day 13 – Recipes for Summer

Day 14 – Breakfast

Day 15 – Grocery List #2

Day 16 – Shopping Day #2

Day 17 – Freezer Tips

Section Three – Planning Phase 2: Monthly Planning

Day 18 – Recipe Cards

Day 19 – Revisiting Inventory

Day 20 – Master Calendar

Day 21 – Shopping Days, Cooking Days

Day 22 – Schedule Reminders

Day 23 – Grocery List #3

Day 24 – Shopping Day #3

Section Four – Planning Phase 3: Entertaining and Special Occasions

Day 25 – Traditions

Day 26 – Party Planning

Day 27 – Anticipating Needs

Day 28 – Recipes – Finding New Loves and Rekindling Old Flames

Section Five – Review

Day 29 – Self-Awareness

Day 30 – Space-Awareness

Day 31 – Flexibility

Social Media, Part 2

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I was really excited to get 51 likes. 

Yesterday, I talked about the social media that don’t work for me. Today, I want to talk about my favorites. Most of them are works in progress, but I don’t mind, because I love them. Working on them doesn’t seem like work.

Facebook – my author page: https://www.facebook.com/suzanneterrywriter/

I want to be better at this page. That is my main social media goal for the year. This is where you can find all my blog posts and where I post links to articles, blog posts, recipes – basically anything that has anything to do with something I’ve blogged or care about. This is also where you will be able to get book recommendations (I’m wanting to start weekly posts about the books I’m reading) and updates on how my current work in progress is coming (spoiler alert – slowly). If I ever get it together and have a newsletter, this is the first place you will see that.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_coffeesnob_/

I love Instagram. I am not a fan of their new feed algorithm that makes the pictures show up in random order, but I like everything else. Instagram is the whole reason I got a smartphone. For those who like a more personal, human touch to social media, Instagram is where I am more personal. This is where you are most likely to see what is going on with me on a day-by-day basis. I post about the favorite book I’m currently reading, and I often post pictures of dinner and coffee. You should also be prepared for multiple pictures of the pretty, pretty floors in my new apartment, because we are in love.

Instagram reminds me of the yearly photo albums I used to put together.

I love Instagram challenges. It’s like going to a theme party where I can engage exactly as much as I desire. Most of the people I follow are actors, writers, artists, culinary professionals, dancers, runners, and friends, so it’s basically all my favorite things in one place.

Ello: https://ello.co/coffeesnob

Ello is beautiful. I love the simplicity and all that white space.

I blog pictures of coffee here, and before the end of the year, you’ll be seeing some microfiction and poetry paired with those pictures. It’s the start of a new project that I’ve been planning for a while.

Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/coffeesnob318/

Pinterest is my favorite place on the Internet. I have almost a hundred boards. They’re a mix of coffee and words and spunk and cute animals and entertainment.

And food. I have so many food boards, and I use them all. I use them in meal planning, and I use them when I need to take something for a potluck. Any time I’m in a food rut, I run straight to Pinterest.

Each of my writing projects has its own board. You can tell when I’m getting excited about a project, because I will add tons of pins to its board.

I also pin all my favorite blog posts and articles that I read so that when I need to refer back to them, I have them in one organized place.

I used to call Pinterest my happy place, but it’s so much more than that. It makes me happy because it’s the place online (with the exception of this blog) where I am most myself.  I do not apologize for liking the things I like anywhere, but I especially embrace them on Pinterest. I do not abide foolishness in comments. If one is going to disagree, one is welcome to support one’s argument well, or one is welcome to unfollow. Those are the choices.

 

What are your favorite social media spots?

 

Social Media (Part 1)

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Required for the perusal of social media. 

Now that I finally got around to discussing the social media where I’m able to be true to who I am (which I’ve been promising to do since January), it got long. So you get it in two parts this week. Today I’ll discuss where not to find me; tomorrow, I’ll rave about the ones I love.

[Disclaimer: Some of you who are prone to reading between the lines and fretting that posts are about you – relax. Even if everything I say below about things I dislike (and thus don’t personally want to be) steps on your toes, that doesn’t mean I think you should stop doing them. It means I’m a curmudgeonly old woman who barely tolerates the Internet at all, even though I recognize that as a Gen-Xer that makes me a traitor to my generation, as the creation of the Internet is one of our crowning glories. My apologies to the Microserfs who came before me (and to Douglas Coupland for stealing his term). But seriously – if I follow you, it’s because I generally like what you’re doing. If I click like, I mean it. Don’t fret.]

It will come as zero surprise to anyone that I’m not naturally great at social media. It seems that you have to spend a lot of time there to gain a following. It also seems that you have to not be easily annoyed, and that’s not my strength. The level of repetition needed to establish a platform/have an audience/build my brand *retches* looks like nagging to me. It looks like nagging when others do it, and it feels like nagging when I do it.

[I see you fretting. Stop it.]

So if I don’t have a clear plan, my social media presence is reduced to liking and hearting and *hugs* all around. I have accepted that as the norm on some of them *eyes Facebook* because 1) I can’t/won’t be everywhere all the time, 2) some of them are more annoying to me than others, so the less time I spend there, the better my blood pressure will be, and 3) I prefer using different media for different reasons. In the same way that I prefer different geographical places to look different (i.e., have their own personalities), I prefer my different virtual spaces to look different.

Ergo, the plan.

The purpose of these posts is two-fold. First, I want to let you, dear readers, know where you can find me and what you can expect when you find me there. Second, I want to put in writing what I plan to do so that when I am feeling overwhelmed (probably because I’m trying to do what others are doing and that feels exactly like the train wreck it is), I can come back here and look at it and see that it’s not so big and scary after all. The following is a list of places you can find me online and why you may want to find me there.

So…on to where not to find me. I mean, find me there if you want. But don’t expect a lot.

Facebook:

UGH. I often rue the day I got peer-pressured into joining Facebook, because I can’t seem to quit it, and most days, I desperately want to. It helps me keep up with birthdays and events, gives me an organized space for managing groups and event invitations, and helps me keep up with a select few friends, bloggers, artists, activists, and writers who curate their Facebook pages well. And that’s basically all you’ll hear from me there. I scroll through my feed when I’m bored and click the like button a lot which makes it show up in the feeds of people who are following me (sorry-not-sorry), so that’s a nice feature that makes it look like I’m on Facebook constantly, but I really only spend about 10-15 minutes a day there until I’m tired of it. My wall is a collection of other people finding things they think I’ll like (mostly coffee, food, and kittens) and posting it on my wall or tagging me in it. I find the rest of it click-baity and junky.

Facebook is where it seems the general population likes to vomit their opinions, whether their opinion is based on anything factual or not. It is the place where people who don’t seem to understand how research works claim they’ve done their research (which, unless they actually conducted the study by gathering raw data and analyzing it, no, they did not, because that’s what doing research entails). What they probably mean is that they have read some of the research –most likely just the part of the research that supports their opinion – and are trying to pass themselves off as an expert which they wouldn’t need to do if they were experts because their credentials would speak for themselves. The only reason I can fathom for even bothering to mention that they’ve done the reading (without, by the way, posting any links to the reading in order to give credit where credit is due; ergo, they are also moderately plagiarizing) is to silence the opposition by falsely trumping it with their fake expertise that they have done nothing to earn.

Which I don’t like. Obviously. /endrant

The thing I like most about not quitting Facebook is that having an account lets me have a page (coming to a post near you tomorrow).

Twitter: https://twitter.com/coffeesnob318

One hundred forty characters is not enough for anything but “Hey, look at this!” or succinctly stated fluffy witticisms, and that’s precisely how I use it. I follow a ton of people, and sometimes it overwhelms me. I’ll read my list, scroll back to the top, and Twitter is like, “You have 520 new posts.” *flails* I don’t want to stop following them, though, because on days when I don’t have time to read the real news, I can get the gist by scrolling through my Twitter feed, because the people I follow are well-informed. That’s helpful.

Twitter meet-ups/parties/whatever-they’re-called are what I imagine Hell must be like. I have tried them a few times, and it just ruined my whole night. You pretty much have to buy me shoes and many wines to get me to consider it, and I can almost guarantee I will still back out at the last minute. I am not even sorry (and I’m keeping the shoes).

Tumblr: http://coffeesnob318.tumblr.com/

If I were still active in fandom, I would freakin’ live on Tumblr. I’m bitter that Tumblr wasn’t around when I was still keeping up with Smallville on a weekly basis. That would have been awesome.

I don’t know how I’m going to use it in the future. Maybe I’ll continue to forget about it. Maybe I’ll just continue to pin Tumblr posts on Pinterest and call it a day.

Other:

I don’t have an account on Snapchat (I’m a information hoarder – that it goes away freaks me out). I have a LinkedIn account, but I don’t use it except to add people who have added me and to say nice things about them. I don’t Periscope, because I have no desire at this point in my life to record videos of myself.

What social media don’t work for you?

Call Me

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“And so to challenge the police is to challenge the American people who send them into the ghettos armed with the same self-generated fears that compelled the people who think they are white to flee the cities and into the Dream. The problem with the police is not that they are fascist pigs but that our country is ruled by majoritarian pigs.” Ta-Nehisi Coats – Between the World and Me

Today I had a post scheduled about how living a year of true also makes for a year of happy. This week, however, like far too many weeks before it, has been heavy, so while I am still happy, I also hold heartbroken in my other palm.

This holding juxtaposed forces is probably good practice. I have hope for the world, but the world is so broken. Every day, dozens of terrible things happen, and that’s just the things I know about from reading my daily hour of news.

There are many pieces already out there about our most recent tragedies and what we can do to combat racism. My favorites are from Luvvie Ajayi, A’Driane Nieves, and Rebecca Lee. I also like this idea – support activists on the ground by paying their bail.

I can listen and I can speak and I can donate (well, I can donate a little. I work in education). These situations make me panicky, though. They make me want to call all my friends of color and say, “Are you okay? Are you safe at home?” I can do all the things on all the lists and that still might not save my friends’ lives tomorrow.

But I will say this – call me.

If you have car trouble or need to stop somewhere or want someone near just in case…if you are in a situation in which having a short, white friend present might be…culturally helpful…call me. Until the world is a better place for you, if a white face is what they need to see to be comfortable and not shoot to kill, I will bring my white face to you.

I’m not sure what we’ll do if they decide that I’m the next thing that threatens them. But I am not free unless you are free. A freedom that excludes you is not anything I’m interested in having.

It might not help. I might not get there in time. I realize this is a naive and terrible solution.

But I can’t burn the system to the ground by tomorrow.

So call me.

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Today’s the day! Today marks my fifth year anniversary of having a blog at this location, so what better day to start my first link-up?

Last week, we watched the State of the University’s address from our office. Jessa and I also took advantage of Avesta (restaurant in the Union) finally being open for the semester (maybe that was the Friday before…yes). I had beef bourguignon, and it was as tasty as it was beautiful.

I halfway participated in Your Career Homecoming Challenge by Laura Simms, but I wasn’t very good at it. She had some great ideas, though, and she has a free video series starting tomorrow, so click the link above to learn more/sign up!

And as with any week, there was much coffee.

How was your week? Want to share a post? If I’ve done this right, you will be able to follow the LinkUp below. *crosses fingers*

The Magic of Onions

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We had a church potluck on Sunday to welcome back the college students who go away for the summer and to welcome the new school year.

It came at a good time. I have been eating terribly for the last few weeks. Work is busy, and I’m trying to finish a manuscript (about meal planning, oddly enough), so home has been easy food (sandwiches, cereal, the occasional drive-through) and comfort ice cream. I needed to get back in the kitchen and make something again.

I am going to the farm this coming weekend, so I decided to use up some of the veggies in my fridge and on my counter while they were still at their peak. I chopped everything Saturday night so that I could just load up the slow cooker in the morning to create a little ratatouille/caponata hybrid.

Then I went about my evening. It didn’t go as planned. I planned my usual evening of late – sitting in front of the television or reading until I was tired.

But there’s something about onions.

The smell of onions in the air changes my mood. It reminds me of MeMaw’s garden and kitchen. It makes me want to read cookbooks and dream of future dishes. It got me off the couch and into the office to write another 1,100 words on meal planning.

Onions might be my favorite vegetable.

I mean, I’m not going to sit and eat a raw onion like an apple, but I put them in almost everything I cook. I like raw onions just fine but if a dish contains them, they are so overpowering that they’re all I can taste. Then my mouth gets confused, because why is this onion creamy?!?! Oh, wait. Because it’s actually guacamole. My taste buds register it as an oddly green onion dip.

When I make guacamole, I mince the onions (and the peppers, because ditto on the strong taste of peppers) and soften them for a few minutes in a little olive oil. Then I drain the oil and reserve it for a future stir fry or scrambled eggs and let the onions and peppers cool while I prepare the avocado, tomatoes, and celery (yes, celery. Do it! You know, if you like celery). Then I mix it all together, sprinkle in some fresh cilantro, salt, and pepper, and enjoy, usually straight from the mixing bowl.

What’s your favorite veggie? What’s your favorite way to eat it?